Lately, when I go around the Rounie Kenshin sites, I see lots of Tomoe hatters. The main reason they gave is why they hatted her is that she's a cold hatred person. One word, "HA!" yes, I don't think Tomoe is a cold hatred person. Let me see, she wanted revenge on Kenshin because he killed her fiancee. Well, I would have done the same thing too. If some one killed my fence, my family I want revenge on that person that killed him. So Tomoe did something that was perfectly natural her to do.
This is another reason, I got stumbled why they hate Tomoe, Kenshin was in love with her before Kaoru, and after words too! Worst of all they were married. Well, my I ask did you read the last volume of RK? Kenshin and Kaoru did got married and had a child. Tomoe and Kenshin didn’t. Second, I think if wasn't for Tomoe, Kenshin couldn't
a)cook or clean
b) Nice to children
c) To be in love with Kaoru.
d)And try to protect the people he comes across.
Yes, if wasn't for Tomoe, Kenshin would of never experience love and felt guilty that he killed all of those people in the bakumastu. If Kenshin never experienced love by by by K+K.(just a reminder I love Kenshin and Kaoru paring, I was so happy they got married at the end. FINALLY!) Though with Tomoe he knew what love was and starting to regret of killing all those people that he did. Wasn't for Tomoe it'll take FOREVER for him to relize that.